Tuesday, 26 July 2011

WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS



·        The winner is always part of the answer,
The loser is always part of the problem.

·        The winner always has a program
The loser always has an excuse

·        The winner says, “Let me do it for you”
The loser says, “That is not my job”

·        The winner sees an answer for every problem
The losers see a problem for every answer

·        The winner says, “It may be difficult but it possible”
The loser says, “It may be possible but it is too difficult”.

·        When a winner makes a mistake, he says, “I was wrong”
When a loser makes a mistake, he says, “It wasn’t my fault.”

·        A winner makes commitments,
A loser makes promises.

·        Winners have dreams,
Losers have schemes.

·        Winners says, “I must do something”
Losers say, “Something must be done.”

·        Winners are a part of the team,
Losers are apart from the team.

·        Winners see the gain,
Losers see the pain.

·        Winners see possibilities,
Losers see problems.

·        Winners believe in win/win,
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

·        Winners see the potential,
Losers see the past.

·        Winners are like a thermostat,
Losers are like thermometers.

·        Winners choose what they say
Losers say what they choose.

·        Winners use hard arguments but soft words
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

·        Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things,
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

·        Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: “Don’t do to others what you would not want them to do to you”
Losers follow the philosophy, “Do it to others before they do it to you.”

·        Winners make it happen,
Losers let it happen.

·        Winners plan and prepare to win. The key word is preparation.



Sunday, 24 July 2011

CORRUPTION- THE MENACE FOR SOCIETY


Deterioration of moral values is being noticed in every sphere of life and these results in various evils for society. Corruption infested in every system and every institution is also the result of degradation of human values. Lord Acton remarks “power corrupts and absolute power tends to corrupt absolutely” seems to be true in the present social, political and economic systems. It is a multi headed hydra, with no Hercules in sight to slay it.
Corruption which is a curse for society does not mean only taking or giving bribe. It involves as mentioned by Santhanam Committee “misuse of official position or authority, deviation from rules, law and norms, non action when action is required, personal gain for selfish motives, momentary forms and harm to public good.”
In India, corruption has invaded the whole society to such extent that people are now averse to thinking of public life without this phenomenon. Corruption is so rooted in India that people no longer protest against corrupt practices or express any shock when big scandals are exposed. Start with the hospital where a child is born and more further on to education system, opportunities, political system, judiciary, law and order, other day to day activities and till post mortem report and crematorium, corruption is everywhere.
The most significant factor promoting corruption is government, administration, human behavior, erosion of moral and ethical values because of growing materialism, consumerism and disinterest in others problem and needs, lust for wealth and power, all promote corruption in society. Social respect shown to rich and powerful irrespective of their source of wealth and power has also worsened the situation. Economic forces too lead to corruption. A man cannot think about morality if his basic needs are not fulfilled.
The general attitude towards all pervading corruption is that of helplessness. Corruption is hampering the progress of society economically and socially. It promotes inequity, injustice, inefficiency, discrimination, disparity, chaos and anarchy in socio-political system. It erodes the faith of the common man in political-administrative system.
Problem of corruption can’t be removed from the society at once but it can be reduced to a great extent with the help of strong public opinion and determination of government. What is perhaps the most significant priority in the battle against corruption is to adopt coercive legal measures and to evolve a culture of moral conduct in all dimensions of life. Before our entire system collapses, we should cast a stone at the monster of corruption. In such, a holistic approach to understanding and combating the menace of corruption is required. All the segments of society must have the will and competence to get rid of problem of corruption so that society could flourish.

MY QUOTATIONS


DON'T


Don’t care so much for me,
 
I may get used to it.
 
Don’t come so near to me,
 
I may not be able to detach from it.
 
Don’t put so much faith in me,
 
I may not be able to handle it.
 
Don’t touch me the way u do,
 
I may not be able to get over it.
 
Don’t become a part of my life,
 
Coz without u, I won’t be able to live it.
 
Don’t make me fall for u,
 
I may not be able to fall out of it.
 
Don’t come into my life,
 
If u have to leave one day.
 
Don’t give me the hope,
 
That it’s forever u r gonna stay.
 
Coz love is an emotion
 
I won’t be able to hide,
 
When love isn’t reciprocated with love,
 
It hurts deep down inside.
 
Don’t start something
 
That I won’t be able to end.
 
Don’t make me believe
 
That u can be more than a friend.
 
Coz at the end of it all,
 
I don’t wanna hear u say,
 
That,” I’m sorry,”
 
“ but I never felt the same way!”

Saturday, 23 July 2011

ITS REALITY……………ISNT IT?


Whenever you find the key to success, someone changes the lock.
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To Err is human, but to forgive is not a COMPANY policy.
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The road to success??.. Is always under construction.
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Alcohol doesn't solve any problems, but if you think again, neither does Milk.
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In order to get a Loan, you first need to prove that you have ability to repay back.
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All the desirable things in life are either illegal, expensive or fattening.
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Since Light travels faster than Sound, people appear brighter before you hear them speak.
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Everyone has a scheme of getting rich?.. Which never works.
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If at first you don't succeed?. Destroy all evidence that you ever tried.
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You can never determine which side of the bread to butter. If it falls down, it will always land on the buttered side.
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Anything dropped on the floor will roll over to the most inaccessible corner.
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42.7% of all statistics is made on the spot.
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As soon as you mention something?? If it is good, it is taken?. If it is bad, it happens.
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He who has the gold, makes the rules ---- Murphy's golden rule.
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If you come early, the bus is late. If you come late?? The bus is still late.
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Once you have bought something, you will find the same item being sold somewhere else at a cheaper rate.
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When in a queue, the other line always moves faster and the person in front of you will always have the most complex of transactions.
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If you have paper, you don't have a pen. If you have a pen, you don't have paper. If you have both, no one calls.
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Especially for engg. Students : If you have bunked the class, the professor has taken attendance.
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You will pick up maximum wrong numbers when on roaming.
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The door bell or your mobile will always ring when you are in the bathroom.
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After a long wait for bus no.20, two 20 number buses will always pull in together and the bus which you get in will be crowded than the other.
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If your exam is tomorrow, there will be a power cut tonight.
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Irrespective of the direction of the wind, the smoke from the cigarette will always tend to go to the non-smoker
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Before borrowing money from a friend, decide whether you need more.
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There are three sides to every argument: your side, my side and the right side.
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An expert is someone who takes a subject you understand and makes it sound confusing.
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Many things can be preserved in alcohol. Dignity is not one of them.
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Never argue with a fool. People might not know the difference.
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When you're right, no one remembers. When you're wrong, no one forgets.
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Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else.
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Well done is better than well said .
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Everyone makes mistakes. The trick is to make them when nobody is looking.
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Where there is a WILL, there is a WAY, Where there is MONEY, there are many WAYS.
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Where there is MONEY, there are many FRIENDS and RELATIVES.
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Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die