WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS

·        The winner is always part of the answer,

The loser is always part of the problem.

·        The winner always has a program

The loser always has an excuse

·        The winner says, “Let me do it for you”

The loser says, “That is not my job”

·        The winner sees an answer for every problem

The losers see a problem for every answer

·        The winner says, “It may be difficult but it possible”

The loser says, “It may be possible but it is too difficult”.

·        When a winner makes a mistake, he says, “I was wrong”

When a loser makes a mistake, he says, “It wasn’t my fault.”

·        A winner makes commitments,

A loser makes promises.

·        Winners have dreams,

Losers have schemes.

·        Winners says, “I must do something”

Losers say, “Something must be done.”

·        Winners are a part of the team,

Losers are apart from the team.

·        Winners see the gain,

Losers see the pain.

·        Winners see possibilities,

Losers see problems.

·        Winners believe in win/win,

Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

·        Winners see the potential,

Losers see the past.

·        Winners are like a thermostat,

Losers are like thermometers.

·        Winners choose what they say

Losers say what they choose.

·        Winners use hard arguments but soft words

Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

·        Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things,

Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

·        Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: “Don’t do to others what you would not want them to do to you”

Losers follow the philosophy, “Do it to others before they do it to you.”

·        Winners make it happen,

Losers let it happen.

·        Winners plan and prepare to win. The key word is preparation.